What is your name age and location?

Rachel. I’m 46 and I live in Texas

Are you married, single or dating?

Married for the last 10 years.

What is your sex life normally like?

Very little… We are a very simple couple and rarely have sex because I’ve lost to desire for sex.

When did you buy the Fleshlight ?

About 2 months ago. I got it as a gift for my husband.

Was the price of the Fleshlight worth the investment?

Yes it fit my budget nicely and it allowed me to order more goodies as well from the site and from other sites to really spice up the gift for my husband.

Was the shipment of the Fleshlight  Lisa Ann’s Vagina quick?

Super quick. I thought it would come a day or two after it actually came. It came so early my husband almost saw it before I was ready to give it to him.

What made you try the Fleshlight : Lisa Ann’s Vagina?

Within the last year, my sex drive went from a 8 to a 2. My husband ,who is 12 years younger than myself still wanted to fuck and do all those fun sexual things. With kids, work and life in general I wasn’t even looking for that kind of pleasure. I still loved the interaction but the sex itself had gotten painful and dull. I choose this model because the women looked a lot like myself when I was younger. The shape of her pussy also looked a lot like my own and I liked the features on the inside as well as the color on the outside.

Did you use it with someone or by yourself?

With my husband… I did test it with my hands for a little bit and also tasted it…

How did you use the Fleshlight : Lisa Ann’s Vagina for the first time?

I got dressed up all sexy and sent our three kids to the movies and to dinner with their friends. When he came home from work he knew he was going to get some. We started with some major kissing and from there he moved onto my breast and then he removed my panties. Before he could slide into me I grabbed the toy and told him to fuck the toy instead of me. I used my juices to make it nice and wet and lifted my leg so that it was right close to my entrance. I told him to look at me the whole time and pretend the toy is me and not a toy. It worked wonderfully. He fucked the toy nice and hard and I found myself getting super turned on even though I was just holding onto the Fleshlight. It was super sexy when he shot his load into the toy as well. He tossed it out of my hand quickly and began to lick me into an orgasm right away. It was so so sexy. We ended up fucking with the Fleshlight another 3 times that night alone. He explained that he had been waiting for sex for ever and hadn’t emptied himself in awhile either so he had to drain it while he could. It was so sexy and also exhausting. But we both went to sleep smiling like mad. Now it’s part of our normal sex and because it’s not my pussy being fucked we can have sex every day if we really wanted to.

Would you recommend the Fleshlight : Lisa Ann’s Vagina to others?

Yes. I told a few friends about it who are also having sex problems and they each said they would consider trying it. They each noticed the glow and the sparkle in my eye as being a good pussy licking session but they also knew I wasn’t fucking my husband anymore. Of courses the questions came and I was happy to answer them all.

Do you plan on using other toys from the manufacture now that you have tried this toy?

I’m considering it a lot. Most likely the anal toys sound like the most fun but since they are so taboo I don’t know if I would be willing to actually show them to my husband. I’m also considering the anal model of the same porn star.

Would you use the Fleshlight : Lisa Ann’s Vagina again in a different way? How?

We’ve tried it a ton of different ways since the first night. One thing I want to try is fucking him with it while I suck on his balls. He loves his balls being sucked on and I’ve only done it a few times.

Did the Fleshlight : Lisa Ann’s Vagina fill your fantasy or your partners fantasy?

I don’t think so. It more like filled a need and a void we were having. Our relationship wasn’t sex based but without it the stress between us got worst and worst and it seemed like before the Fleshlight we were heading to a divorce because his needs and my needs were not being met at all.

What do you have to say to those considering buying this toy?

Buy it. Consider why you are using it and buy it. Even if you’re a woman, you can really use this toy to bring so much more pleasure to your life.

Please leave a message below if you are interested in this and I will get straight back to you, your suggestions etc would be really

appreciated. Would love to turn this into a thriving community.

Please scroll down for the comments box and leave me your thoughts/ ideas.

Jenna x

The Hitch is a perfect Sex position for a Threesome

Joking aside this sexual position does indeed offer some unique benefits If you can pull it off with some flair. probably not a position to try out for the first time. It would be worth nailing the ‘pile driver’ part of this position. In reality your penis will slip out during penetration and this could spoil some of the pleasure of the threesome. So If you are going to try it out practice with your partner together before your arranged threesome to iron out any hiccups.

Kama Sutra Position for Threesomes. The Hitch Sex Position : – Tips, Techniques and instructions.

So, how to get into this demanding sexual position. Girlfriend A should lay on her back on the bed with her legs pointing up towards the ceiling. This is the awkward part of the position for the guy. Get up on top in a reverse position on the woman. Effectively positioning your penis in a pointing down angle to enter the vagina like a ‘pile driver’ from above.This is not a common angle for penetration and you can see why it may be possible to ‘slip out’ at the wrong time. Girlfriend B can now mount Girlfriend A’s face in a reverse position and get some seriously intense cunnilingus action going on.

Step 1: Woman laying on her back raising her legs.

Step 2: Man A Mounts in a Reverse Position

Step 3: Girlfriend B straddles the Other Womans face in a reverse position

Things the Guy will enjoy from The Hitch threesome position:

From your lofty position from up above you are going to be able to feel like a superhuman, fuck hammer. The intensity of the sensation of driving your cock in and out from this position will drive you insane especially when at full penetration. If you have a particularly freaky girlfriend, girlfriend B can finger your asshole and massage your prostate for the ultimate ‘coming in guns hot’ screaming orgasm. It’s gonna blow your mind.

The things the Women will enjoy from The Hitch threesome position:

Girlfriend B will experience leg weakening oral sex and the opportunity to really make the guy blow his load by using just a couple of her well lubed fingers up his ass. Girlfriend B can also make things more intense for the other woman by sucking her toes or leaning over and rubbing Girlfriend A’s clitoris. The Hitch is a great way for girl-girl contact.

You’ve made the decision to embark upon getting your threesome ‘wings’ and have chosen to go down the route of booking an Escort for your Threesome. Well Done! You have now jumped from having your threesome as a fantasy and made the exciting step to bring it into reality. Don’t worry that’s the hardest part done. You will probably find now that it all seems too real and you are feeling some trepidation about it. Thinking oh my god what are we doing? Still on the fence about hiring an escort for a threesome?

No fear, this is a completely normal reaction and will soon pass once you get into the swing of things, so to speak! Keep talking with your partner throughout the planning stages. It will really help to bond you both and by discussing your desires and the actual nuts and bolts of having the threesome you will really start to work out the things that matter and what any potential issues may be.

FFM or MFF Threesomes?

Start simple, What kind of person are you looking for? FFM Threesomes are the most common experience for couples. A great opportunity to have a gentle introduction to same sex fun. Don’t get me wrong here. Just because you may fantasise about being with another woman does not make you gay!! If you are going to have a threesome then unless it’s really just for one persons benefit. Which I doubt is ever really the case.. otherwise you would not be a particularly willing participant!

It’s just a question of having a few ideas about what you may or may not be comfortable doing with someone of the same sex! Once you have worked out your own personal limitations. Think about those things that maybe you wouldn’t be happy with your partner doing? Consider those things that are your own personal ‘trademarks’ those funky moves in bed that you have both learned together. Save those special moves for your own partner and try not to involve your guest in this. This will ensure that you save that special intimacy with each other.

Now you have worked out what kind of limitations you have. It will make it a lot easier to find the most suitable escort. So, Where do you find your Escort for your threesome? Online is indeed the answer. Do not even entertain the prospect of picking up a streetwalker, this is not cool and you will regret that decision. Do your research. There are various escort agencies out there that advertise many varied interesting statistics about their staff if you don’t wish to use an agency you could find an independent Escort that works for themselves. You will find negotiating with an independent a lot easier as they effectively are their own boss.

How to Book your Escort

Before booking online make a shortlist of escorts that you can call or even email if you wish. Contact them and discuss your requirements and any special demands that you may have. Be honest and open and let them know exactly what you are after. Do not beat around the bush!! Just get to the point. Once you have contacted all of the possible escorts then you can make and educated choice that will suit your tastes.

Many Escorts cater for couples so you can be rest assured that they will be able to assist you by taking the lead after all it’s not an everyday occurrence for most folks! Don’t forget to discuss booking and payment terms prior to making any agreement.

Now you have made your booking you can start looking forward to your very special evening ahead.

Need more help? To browse some escort services try punterlink for free. There are lots of other escort types of sites around that can help you choose the right escort for your Threesome.

Arranging a threesome has become a lot easier thanks to the internet and the plethora of adult sites offering threesome finder ads. Now it’s so easy to arrange your threesome experience in the privacy of your own home. Gone are the days of contact ads and magazines and using snail mail via PO Boxes etc.

The threesome niche is predominantly stuffed with articles and stories more about men and womens experiences of Threesomes and not actually covering “How to find a Threesome”.

You’ll find many ads from couples who are looking for a female. Unfortunately just like real life single women are always highly sought after. After a while of searching for the perfect candidate you might start to think of it as a mission impossible!

Do not give up so easy. The reason why so many couples are finding difficulty in getting that single hotty is they don’t try hard enough. How many times have we seen those half arsed threesome finder adverts? With really sketchy information at best and very little about just what they have to offer the female or man for that matter.  Threesome Finder classifieds without a photo are really a missed opportunity too. Why bother placing a threesome ad to get all up close and personal with a virtual stranger and yet not be willing to show what you look like?

Adding a photo to your personal ad

I’m not advocating  plastering family snaps all over the web or close up mugshots for friends or family to find. Be sensible and smart at the same time. Why not put up a photo showing yourself from behind? This can look sexy as hell, give away very little about your own identity and actually offer something that a potential playmate would want to jump on!

The same can be said of phallic ‘head’ shots, we have all seen these online. Please guys, put them away. This is 99% guaranteed to put the stoppers and any potential threesome. Certainly view it from the less is more point of view.

When writing your Threesome personal advert, work out just what you want to say, be clear, concise and most importantly be interesting. Try injecting humor into your ad. After all, if you were trying to sell a car or a house you would put some real effort into it. So why not do the same while composing your very own threesome advert?

Try craigslist and maybe backpage which are good free options to try out and dip your toes into the exciting world of sexual exploration.

Should we use an escort for a threesome?

During the whole experience of arranging our menage a trois we will come across lots of what if’s and how do we do this? We are suggesting you consider hiring an escort for a threesome experience and I will go into my reasons for this in a mo.

But, like anything else that we aren’t fully conversant in it’s easy to make an error of judgment. Like why, oh why, did we ever think that asking the seemingly nice ‘girl next door type’ who lives just over the road to join us for a cosy night in and just ‘drop’ into the conversation that we would both love to have her as our third in an epic threesome.

This idea always sounds great at 1am when we have been sitting on the sofa and getting really hot discussing likely female candidates. Supercharged by our massive consumption of wine fuelled bonhomie it all seems like the best idea since putting ring pulls on tin cans.

However, come the next day at 9am. The cold light of day has added a spanner to our plans. Dawning realisation that what you imagined would be so easy last night, now seems like a world away. You see the girl over the road, who you imagined would be absolutely gagging to be invited into your threesome and this now offers you two choices. Go over and invite her to become your ‘third’ or more realistically (now the magical power of alcohol sponsored optimism has fully subsided) You will do nothing and just keep on dreaming.

You see that every action has a consequence and having to leave your house in the morning and face the shame of any rejection or even worse the irate boyfriend who has just returned home from a serious stretch in prison for unashamed violence to a complete stranger. This is EXACTLY the reason why most threesomes remain a fantasy for a lot of couples.

Single men or women also run the risk of being drawn into an awkward possibly even dangerous situation. Imagine standing on the doorstep waiting to be invited in and Fred and Rose West open the door..!! You would be out of there quicker than OJ Simpson from a murder scene.

Planning for your Threesome

Most threesomes come about through sheer drunken luck on a crazy night out. OR more likely as you are reading this online!! through prior planning. Be realistic in your expectations, Unless you can be absolutely sure that your prospective threesome partner/partners are definitely going to be 100% up for it. Your best bet is choosing someone who doesn’t live across the road, whose children don’t go to the same school as yours. You are getting the idea now!

This is where an hiring an escort for a threesome comes into play. Remember.. that these are professional sex workers. Their aim is to satisfy their clients needs and to get paid for doing that. They have no reason to judge you or say no. Depending upon where you are of course, the law is normally pretty relaxed about escort services. So relax about the whole thing and think logically.

If you can find someone through classifieds or online personals etc then that’s absolutely fantastic and a green light for really enjoying the whole threesome experience. But you may have to be prepared to wait a while. Just as you are selective about looks, personality and personal hygiene so will your possible threesome partner/s be. You really don’t want to just ‘settle’ for what you can get do you? You can be sure that any escort you hire for a threesome will have impeccable personal hygiene. Sex is their business.

Booking Your Threesome Escort

If you decide to use an Escort for your threesome and have worked out the  kind of escort experience you want. You can be assured you get a whole lot of sexy options! Firstly, she will dress as you wish, Will be able to openly discuss boundaries and limitations without feeling awkward and will definitely be a whole load more confident in the sack. Escorts are also very strict with using protection, this is a MUST in any threesome. If you really are serious about needing that threesome without waiting around hoping to meet the right person/couple consider using an Escort service.

It’s certainly a guaranteed way of making it happen and there isn’t the problem of personal relationships being formed.

So make your choices wisely, by all means place up classifieds and personal ads but if things are looking stale and your not getting much interest after a while. Whereas you could easily book an escort to meet at the hotel and night of your choice and you can also be selective about looks and ground rules before you even start. I guess it all comes down to just how much you need that threesome!

I have some more advice regarding using an escort for a threesome here.  I have also found a site offering good advice about ‘how to’ deal with your escort here. Please check back and comment and let us know how your threesome with an escort went!

This is really the ulitmate experience for any red blooded male. FFM Threesomes offer a couple the golden ticket for fulfilling that no 1 all time male fantasy. No matter whether the threesome is a gift offered to a husband or partner as making a guys fantasy come to reality. There is every opportunity for your wife of girlfriend to try her hand at exploring any bisexual curiousity that she may have had in the past. It’s not a pre-requisite for a successful FFM Threesome. But with one guy and two girls present why not try exploring? After all, if you weren’t the experimental kind then you wouldn’t even be considering a threeway! You don’t have to worry about becoming a full time card carrying lesbian. Most women with a healthy sex life have dabbled with bisexuality in the past. If you’re certain that it’s not for you. Hey, that’s no big deal either.

The reason why I mention female bisexuality is that ALL guys find it a complete turn on to see their partner getting freaky with another woman. This is guaranteed to drive the guy absolutely wild. Even just watching a couple of girls kissing and touching will send a guy crazy! It’s also a real turn on for the girls to know they are being watched and look so hot!

For any woman who is uncomfortable with the thought of their partner having sex with another woman. You could always stick to an oral only rule for your new playmate. So after foreplay and making sure that your new third is getting plenty of attention for you both. You could finish up with the couple having penetrative sex doggy style while the woman is giving oral sex to the female third. It’s essential to pay attention to both women in the FFM Threesome.

Consider putting on a show for the man in a threesome

Putting on the ultimate show for the guy in an FFM is going to be an awesome memory for the lucky guy. A sixetynine (69) position for the two women allowing the man to watch and touch would blow his mind. Of course if you are exploring every aspect to having a threesome then if your first experience is a FFM then why not next time think about trying out an MMF Threesome?

If you decide to take this approach you will find your guy will more than likely show a lot more consideration and empathy. After all would he be so willing to put on a bi show for you? Hey, you could even use this to dare each other and see just how far BOTH your sexual boundaries can be pushed.

Always ensure that when playing with a new partner insist upon using protection during any encounter. With the rise of STI’s and other conditions do you really want to ruin your health. Safe sex is an absolute must for your threesome. But it’s not rocket science use common sense and do not use the same condom with both the girls. Just be careful and playsafe. No matter what guy you ask, there no 1 fantasy would be an FFM Threesome so why not make it happen sooner rather than later!

You can arrange your FFM Threesome through online classifieds or sometimes it’s easier easier to use an online threesome site to get just the girl you want.

Our MMF Threesome advice is aimed at helping you make the most of your Threesome!

Whether you are a couple looking to get a guy involved as a third as a treat for your partner or maybe because of the excitement you experience by watching your girl being penetrated by another man. The enormous rush that the woman will experience by being sandwiched between two hot and sweaty male bodies. Double penetration MUST be experienced during the threesome. The sensitive delicate membrane area is stretched to allow both guys to penetrate. It’s this sensation of stretching that causes the intimate feeling of being filled completely. This leads to the ultimate orgasm which is difficult to believe if you have not tried DP. Very often multiple orgasms can be achieved very easily by using this method.

Make sure the guys are comfortable in such close proximity beforehand. There is the possibility of ‘crossing swords’ taking place. Do not worry, you can be sure that once you are actually in this scenario. It will all seem surreal and pretty much all inhibitions will go by the wayside.

A great deal of Threesomes take place aided and abetted by alcohol! Although it will help relax those involved. Be aware though that too much alcohol is likely to affect performance especially as you’re all going to have some nerves while getting down to your threesome! Now we cannot condone the use of Viagra but if you have been planning the 3sum for a while. Perhaps you should consider having some on standby just in case the guys cannot ‘rise’ to the occasion. You really don’t want this to take the shine off what could be a fantastic experience.

Start out the Threesome with a 3 way sexy massage

Massage is a great way of breaking down any barriers at the start of the evening. Setting the mood with some candles and relaxing music while taking the opportunity to shower and primp for getting up close and personal with each other. It is recommended considering having an enema earlier in the day just to make sure that you are scrupulously clean for DP. This will take away ANY worries you may have during the Threesome.

Building up to getting intimate it’s a good idea if the female takes a more proactive role by taking the lead. After all you should be getting lots of attention so why not make sure you take from the Threesome exactly what you want.

Once you’ve had your first threesome it’s a good idea to have decided what you both want out of the experience. Would you like to continue the meetings with your new playmate? If this is the case you must work out what is best for your own relationship. Is is possible that this could cause jealousy or maybe become a temptation for straying.

It is probably best to have your first MMF threesome and then see whether anything has changed between you both. The most likely result is that you will have just gained a fantastic experience which you will both remember fondly and always look back on as an intimate moment in sharing with each other. You could read GQ’s take on a menage a trois here

For some great suggestions for sex positions to try out during your MMF Threesome our advice is the dp position or spitroast position now go out and get that MMF threesome underway!

This position can be either MMF or FFM but we are going to go with the FFM Flavor.  Because let’s face it any guy that get’s himself into this sexual arrangement deserves to be treated like a king.

Kama Sutra position for Threesomes The Bobbing for apples sex position. – tips, techniques and instructions:

Let’s start out with the guy laying down on the bed spread out on his back. Luxuriating from a sensual blowjob being performed by girlfriend A who is kneeling between the guys legs. Using one hand for support and the other to maybe rub his balls. OR For extreme pleasure gently but firmly insert two fingers and massage his prostate gland this is guaranteed to drive him into an absolute frenzy.Definitely worth doing this to help make him cum if you are all trying to reach climax together.

Girlfriend B when ready to join can straddle the mans mouth and enjoy sumptuous oral sex and gently play at ‘smothering’ the man by riding his face to orgasm.

Step 1 The Man Lays on his back

Step 2: Girl straddles guy for Oral

Step 3: Guy performs oral on Woman B

Things the Guy will enjoy during Bobbing for Apples Threesome position.

While girlfriend A is either between or straddling your legs, you may get to feel her breasts and hard nipples caressing your balls as she rocks and bucks back and forth to give your blowjob.

Experience the feeling of a hot wet blowjob and being smothered by a warm pussy riding your face at the same time.

Things the girls will enjoy during this Bobbing for Apples Threesome position:

Girlfriend A will get to feel like a goddess in control of the mans orgasm and the timing and intensity of it. Especially when fingering his prostate to “make” him orgasm.

Girlfriend B will be able to have an intense face riding session and control the speed depth and intensity of the cunnilingus. If she turns around Reverse cowgirl she can watch the guy getting blown and face sit him and play with the other girl at the same time.

Kama Sutra positions for threesomes “Raising the Mast” threesome sex position: – Hints, tips and instructions.

Lay Girlfriend A flat on her back on the bed and place both of her legs over your shoulders and from here you can penetrate from many different angles and even vary the stroke and depth of penetration for increased arousal and teasing with your penis.

Girlfriend B can now easily straddle Girlfriend A’s face and get some great oral sex in the mix.

Step 1: Girl lays back and prepares

Step 2: Man positions himself with the womans legs raised

Step 3: Woman B straddles Woman A for Oral

Things the guy will enjoy from the Raising the Mast threesome position:

He will be able to maintain some serious eye contact with Girlfriend B during this position. This is a great sex position for you to do with your partner (as Girlfriend B) It’s as though you are both fucking the same person but actually doing it at the same time ‘together’. Great in a trusting intimate open relationship.

The things that the women will enjoy from the Raising the Mast threesome position:

Girlfriend A will feel like an amazonian goddess as you enter her and your partner is riding her face.
Girlfriend B will be getting some amazing oral sex sitting on the other womans mouth and able to watch you have sex with the other woman. All the while you are maintaining eye contact with your own partner girlfriend B. Raising the Mast will certainly make your Threesome go with a bang!